bdsm podcasts

Sex Gets Real 114: Moving beyond sex positivity

JoEllen Notte is a sex educator powerhouse - she is revolutionizing the discussion about sex and depression, and also...

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Sex Gets Real 115: Lube & STI master class

Are you ready for a mastery level version of Sex Gets Real? Good. Because this week, Sarah Mueller from Smitten...

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Sex Gets Real 116: Orgasmquest

Trigger warning: talk of suicide From the early days of queer porn to managing sex positive feminist shops to getting...

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Sex Gets Real 117: Coming out & sacred intimacy

A listener question sent me on a quest to find some folks who could share their coming out stories, specifically cis...

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Sex Gets Real 118: Pole dancing & burlesque

Body positivity is something I constantly bring up on the show - not only because it's an important part of my own...

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Sex Gets Real 119: Fetish wrestling, sex work, & fisting

Have you taken the poll on sexgetsreal.com yet telling me where in the world you are? I want to take this show on the...

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Sex Gets Real 120: Trans fetish, pegging, & being bad in bed

It's just you and me this week. No guest. No interview. Just your questions and emails and me savoring every single...

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Sex Gets Real 121: Erotic humiliation & masterful kink

There is something so delicious in talking about something that I have so little experience with. This week's chat...

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Sex Gets Real 122: Porn star & sex work advocate Conner Habib

Conner Habib generously agreed to jump on the phone with me at the last minute for this week's episode, and our...

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Sex Gets Real 123: Emily Nagoski on pleasure, desire, & werewolves

In the DC area? Sign up for my workshops at Secret Pleasures Boutique by popping over to their workshop page. The...

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Sex Gets Real 124: Dylan is back this week!

In the DC area? Sign up for my workshops at Secret Pleasures Boutique by popping over to their workshop page.  What...

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Sex Gets Real 125: Rejection, rape fantasies, & painting consent violators as evil

In the DC area? Sign up for my workshops at Secret Pleasures Boutique by popping over to their workshop page. The...

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Sex Gets Real 126: Open relationships, touch free orgasms, & Daddy Doms

In the DC area? I'm teaching kink, anal sex, thriving relationships, blowjobs, and more in October and November....

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Sex Gets Real 127: Master, slave, Dominance, submission

Sinclair Sexsmith (you might know them as Sugarbutch) is here this week and we are talking ALL about kink, BDSM, and...

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Sex Gets Real 128: Erotica & desire with Rachel Kramer Bussel

Erotica has played a significant role in my own sexual exploration and development - from teaching me about my own...

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Sex Gets Real 129: Living with STIs, becoming a sex educator

This week is a little different from the normal show.  First up, I field a few listener questions about finding out...

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Sex Gets Real 130: Setting boundaries & tips for your first sex party

Ready for that online anal workshop? Head to sexgetsreal.com/butts to check it out and sign-up. Marcia Baczynski,...

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Sex Gets Real 131: Chlamydia, making lube, and Black men who are small

Sign-up for my live, online anal 101 class! It's October 26th and going to be amazing fun. Learn more and register...

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Sex Gets Real 132: Allison Moon on queer identity and vulvas

Sign-up for my live, online anal 101 class! It's October 26th and going to be amazing fun. Learn more and register...

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Sex Gets Real 133: Whores of Yore on sex & porn through the ages

Grab a cup of tea, settle in, and prepare to be amazed. When Kate Lister, creator of Whores of Yore, agreed to come...

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