The difference between ‘settling,’ and being realistic
There’s a marked difference between settling in love, and being realistic. Settling acknowledges...
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Podcasts de partner selection
Relationships: When is ‘good,’ good enough?
There’s a time in every relationship when we’ll wonder if what we have is the best choice for us....
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Why your partner bounces between stability and reactivity
Are you confused by your partner’s fluctuating emotions? Are you struggling with your own...
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Are they looking to buy? Or just ‘window shopping?’
They pursued you with texting and online chatting. Why did they cool off? They may have been...
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Disappointed with dating (and losing hope)?
If you’re exhausted from bad dates, crazy daters, and you’re losing faith in finding love—it’s...
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Learning how to date as the ‘New You’
Personal transformation may initially make us feel separate, but ultimately leads us to greater...
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Online Dating: The ‘Blind Purchase’ Effect
If you’ve found online dating frustrating (and wonder if you’re doing something wrong)—it’s not...
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Can a red flag be a signal for a second chance?
Red flags are markers we need to heed in dating. Sometimes we ‘imagine’ we see red flags in an...
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Attraction: When the ‘draw’ becomes the drawback
Differences in personality and lifestyle are exciting in a mate... until the very thing that was...
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Are they worth the risk? Here’s how to lower the odds of heartache
Rather than being afraid to love, the better option is to be a good sifter of which partner is...
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When a relationship should happen, but doesn’t
In theory, they’re the perfect partner. They check off every category on our ‘list’. And, we’re...
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Q and A: Are you hoping your current partner will change your past?
Are you seeking love from someone incapable of giving it to you? Childhood issues can create the...
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Q and A:How do I move on from rejection and not let it affect my self-worth?
Viewer Lola writes, “Hi Susan! How do you move on from rejection and not let it affect your self...
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Q and A: What’s the most common mistake younger men make with older women?
Shanewrites, “Dear Susan, Enjoying your videos and website, finding your perspective refreshing...
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Q and A: How do we know when to give someone a chance?
Laetitia writes, “Hi Susan,Thank you for all your fabulous advice. So helpful! Here is my...
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Q and A: Why do you pick someone so difficult?
R Baker writes, “Brilliant video, and Nikka was an adorable addition. Can’t wait to see the ‘why...
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Q and A: When is it a deal breaker vs.a compromise?
Viewer Katia writes, “Hi Susan, I love your videos! You are helping me to find my true self and...
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Q and A: I’m ‘showing up’ for love. Why aren’t my dates?
Dominik writes, “Hi Susan, I‘ve watched all of your videos and they are so helpful, thank you!...
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Q and A: How can I find sexual desire AND real connection?
Paul writes, “Hello Susan. For most of my life I have been struggling to choose the right partner...
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Q and A: How do I ask about their relationship history (without sounding intrusive)
Georgina writes: “I would love to get your thoughts on the best way to ask someone why his (or...
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